Ghurar Al-Hikam Wa Durar Al-Kalim, Exalted Aphorisms And Pearls Of Speech
Suppressing Anger
Suppressing anger-الكَظم والكاظم
- The suppressor of anger is one who extirpates his grudges.
1ـ اَلْكاظِمُ مَنْ أماتَ أضْغانَهُ.
- Suppress [your] anger and you will increase in forbearance.
2ـ اِكْظِمِ الغَيْظَ تَزْدَدْ حِلْماً.
- Suppression [of anger] is the fruit of forbearance.
3ـ اَلكَظْمُ ثَمَرَةُ الحِلْمِ.
- The cornerstone of forbearance is suppression [of anger].
4ـ رَأْسُ الحِلْمِ الكَظْمُ.
- Blessed is the one who suppresses his anger and does not let it loose, and [who] disobeys the command of his [carnal] soul and thus is not destroyed by it.
5ـ طُوْبى لِمَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظَهُ ولَمْ يُطْلِقْهُ، وعَصى أمْرَ
نَفْسِهِ فَلَمْ يُهْلِكْهُ.
- How many a time is anger suppressed out of the fear of that which is more severe than it.
6ـ كَمْ مِنْ غَيظ تُجُرِّعَ مَخافَةَ ما هُوَ أشَدُّ مِنْهُ.
- Whoever suppresses his anger, his forbearance becomes complete.
7ـ مَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظَهُ كَمُلَ حِلْمُهُ.
- Suppress [your] rage when you are angry and overlook [the fault of others] despite having authority, [in this way] the outcome will be in your favour.
8ـ اِكْظَمِ الغَيْظَ عِنْدَ الغَضَبِ وتَجاوَزْ مَعَ الدَّوْلَةِ تَكُنْ
لَكَ العاقِبَةُ.